Notes:
Say something to bash bad people: not to bash people, but people with bad characteristics that do not show love for others. Say that to understand and help people is greater than to misunderstand and hurt people. Bash the bad characteristics. Say that evil lies in everyone's hearts and minds, no point demonising anyone, when even the devil is not beyond redemption as he was able to speak to G-d to test Job and that this must mean that Satan is above us in G-d's view as he has the power to do so. We should respect that and try to understand and include that demonic entity in our lives, as to demonize is to err as humans, and if we refuse to correct errors they'll be mistakes which cost our souls, and that to forgive is divine. It is said Allah is oft merciful and that G-d forgives us, it must therefore be in our nature to forgive, as we are not the prophets to maintain civil order, and we are not the creation of the serpent who shall never forgive and will always hurt pained in unforgiven hell, being unable to forgive, understand and accept people for who they are.
Say I forgive Sandalal. He made a small mistake. He was there for me. I'm happy he's around. Say I forgive Thilanga uncle. He's just brought up in Nalanda school to discipline people as such, say it verbally and not in writing as I can manipulate my tone. I can also say this without any kind of offense, without patronising or deriding or making him look bad or embarrassing him.
Say I called everyone. Called Sumal Perera, Ashok Pathirage uncle and his family, whatever. Say that it's easier and more comfortable to relate to them. Say it's only a small Crowd I can trust and be around safely.
Say that Dharmadasa family something good, say good about Albert Edirisinghe and his son, say good about Sohli Captain and Lal Silva, say it was a waste to not unleash Duminda silva potential, say that Ranatunga family is united and say good things, say good things about Kumar Sangakkara, say good things about Sanath Jayasuriya, say good things about Mahela, Rajendra Theagarajah, everyone. Say you wish Sandhya Dharmadasa aunty was part of our funeral service as she showed she was loyal to us.
Say that Channa Palansuriya uncle tried his best at Sampath Bank and they can't be blamed. Say if anyone's asking for a favour, it needs to be either Thilanga or Jagath uncle and not me. Say that it needs to be that we improve as a country, but that we copy Israel or Singapore where younger generations are given a chance, a fair chance and are treated with respect if they can deliver.
Try best to say something positive about Tamils, Muslims, Burghers, Malays, Parsis, etc. ████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████ █████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████ Say he's not my friend and I don't work for him, that he's my family, my uncle and he's like my dad.
