Dearest Francis ██████████████
Thanks for your message.
Thank you for sharing. It seems like she was a good hearted person judging by her service, winning LKY's early approval and her charitable deeds who was judged harshly by this singular act which I found in LKY's book Hard Truths to Keep Singapore Going. I saw her side of the story was printed notably in the references as well.
How are we supposed to move forward from here?
Well, I think again, she's a celebrity in Singapore and she's known for this infamous deed whether we like it or not. My advice is for her to re-emerge out of the shadows of banishment and embrace the fate circumstances, G-d or the devil besmirched her with, and to laugh it off as the winner. My sincere wish is for her to have the last laugh. She is clearly a good person who is loved by all and deserves to go out (in Singapore) with a bang, a good name, in good standing and in good rapport..
Please watch this video of another very good person who embraced his/ her shortcomings:
Blue Mountain State - How Thad got his name