9:30 p.m.
I was thinking about Nuwan Dharmasiri, but he is a good guy. Dharmasiri Seeya's family are kind towards me. I feel it. They are loyal, intelligent and capable, I will honour them. My grandmother was a woman running a betting franchise of 200 shops, she was successful because her brother Dharmasiri was strong for her and decide to honour and respect her -- that type of loyalty is very rare, usually friends and family, they are prone to envy and comparison and contempt.
Nuwan Aiya, or I should say, Nuwan uncle, he has done nothing wrong--except maybe not keeping in touch, but a few things right, I can see his FB posts shared with his friends where he is tagged, I can see his friends list and he seems to be sincere...
The quick acid test for friendship I use is:
1. Tone/ Respect/ Humility/ PR
2. Public views (faith, policy, etc)
3. Openness/ Trustiness/ Integrity
4. Loyalty/ Faithfulness/ Ability
5. Interests/ Business/ Agendas
6. Secrets/ Confidence/ Truthfulness
7. Humour (darker)/ Character